Day 0 of 90

December 31st, 2021

Day 0 to my 90 day challenge

Hello Rahul!

Nice to see you are back here and with a new challenge. After nailing the 180 days promise challenge and then not even doing a day in the next 180 days challenge, you are here to save yourself again. This time personal growth, money, friendships, relationship and achievements are what you want to either save or make better.

Today is Day 0 where I write down my goals and my plans and my targets for the next 90 days. This blog is going to help me be consistent in what I want to do and achieve. This time the number of goals are more and the level is higher. In order to achieve them, my mind is going to play the most important role where I need to be proactive in making progress, making choices and being happy.

On the last day of 2021, this is probably the first time I am not happy on the last day of the year. Although the day did not start that way. I woke up later after a very tiring day yesterday where I did a lot of things and had a lot of sleep in my eyes. After I woke up, I was in my bed for a while. I decided to go get my haircut done to feel better. After my bath and food, I went to my employee's house to visit his family because his brother had died a few days ago.

Disha and me after daily fights decided last night that we will stay happy and be together on new year's eve and work on ourselves. We both were excited to get married. She told me how their parents were told by my neighbour and their relative that I drink and probably I am not a good guy, Although it doesn't matter. Good things always show.

Disha again started the discussion/argument about new year's plans. I accepted my faults and told her whatever went through my mind last few days. I told her that I am in a good mood and let's make the best of today but that like always did not work and now I am in office writing this to calm down and let go.

I thought I had my points but apparently I am extremely dominant and I do not keep her happy and she ha to cancel her wonderful plans with her siblings and come to Universe just for me. I decided to switch off my internet and not care. Everyday overthinking and being stuck in petty issues is not letting me grow mentally and everyday I sit in office with a bad mood not being able to do greater things. Whose fault is this? Mine. Why do I give away in trash talk?

Therefore, things to be followed:

1. Never make plans and never put in time/effort/money in getting anything done. Let others get stuff done
2. Never depend on anybody for any plans
3. Do not pay attention to too much talk. People who keep repeating about the past are the ones who always live in the past. There is never any growth. I am not one of them. I need to stop arguing over things that happened in the past. Shut up and get to work. Let people talk about the past
4. Be happy in your own company, Be fearless. Never keep your happiness in somebody else's lap. Take the situation in front of you and react only if needed otherwise stay quiet. Hopefully, people will stop trying to trigger you
5. Do not get triggered. I often find myself in situations where even after telling Disha or somebody to not do a certain thing(mainly because that argument is about something in the past and nothing good is going to come out of it). Just zone out or cut the crap. Do not listen. Listen if it talks about the other person's thought. Be empathetic but do not indulge in anything that is only meant to bring you down.
6. Be busy. Work hard. I am highest earner of my family and I am going to be that even after marriage. I have responsibilities and I have power. If I make a wrong move, it affects everyone. Respect all but know that your own efforts are going to bringing everybody happiness. You have not worked hard so far. You were dwelling in the past. Daily fights and negativity. You must be the strongest. Become head strong and do not let small things get into your head. Some people will keep talking about things don't matter. Avoid. Be transparent and clear in your mind. Only talk about growth.

Coming back to my goals.

Daily habits:

1. Meditation

2. Hair Care

3. Skin Care

4. Journaling

5. 5 cold emails

6. Arkedia Content

7. Rahul Kedia Content

8. Reading

9. Working Out

10. Online Courses

11. Learning French

12. Being Grateful

Goals:

1. Save Money. Build Wealth. See yourself becoming bigger version of yourself in terms of money. Let people say what they want. Build your empire. You are not ordinary. You have to be the greatest.
2. Travel everywhere. Do not leave anything. It keeps you sane.
3. Clock 8 lacs in revenue in January, February and March. Keep your head low and work.
4. 1 book, 1 course and French learning every 2 weeks. You have to know more than others to become more than others. Make something that people want to spend money in. Add value to the world.
5. Plan Lions and Disha Mission and make a permanent project for each.
6. Have a solution to Socal
7. Happiness is an inside job. If you decide to not be happy, nothing can make you happy. If you decide that okay my new year's plan is shit. It is going to be shit. There is not going to be any kind of fun.
8. Create Content

Simplified Version:

1. Take care of body, food, hair and face
2. Build a larger business dynamically
3. Work on your habits - Reading, Journaling, Learning a new language, online courses, sending out cold emails, social projects in lions and disha mission. Meditate daily.
4. Creating content and building arkedia and rahul kedia's community
5. Be happy, be kind and always be your biggest supporter and your biggest inspiration

Body - Business - Habits - Community - Happiness

On that note, signing off.

Note to self: Stop getting into shit holes. Don't argue. Say yes and move on. Let things go wrong. Be your own superman. The world will follow.

Meditate daily. Take deep breathes. You are made for bigger things.